Monday, 30 March 2009

Mary-Ann started a blog a week or two ago as a sort of personal diary. I have tried various ways of trying to keep in touch with friends and family and nothing has really worked, so Dave and I thought we would try this. We are not going to bare our souls, and don't want to get into the whole Facebook thing of living life twice, once for real and again for the internet, but this could be useful. Mum'a funeral really made us think about how inportant family is, and how easily lost. I have been doing a family tree for several months, using the internet and Ancestry.com, and again it makes me realise how may people we are connected to by our genes but have no real knowledge of. ( If anyone wants a link to what I have done so far, just e-mail me. You can have access to the website as an editor of my Family Tree. As the census results don't cover anything after 1901, it is more difficult to research living people than ancestors, so many of you could help me out with dates, second names etc. If you can't work out how to add information, just e-mail it to me.)

Dave and I have been working in the garden this afternoon. Building Mum's annexe caused major disruption to the garden you see on the photograph. The digger and dumper caused impaction of the soil, and the area where we had to fill in our pond is waterlogged most of the time. The builders kindly came back after they had finished and dug up some mature shrubs that we wanted to re-site. They have been langushing in tubtrugs for three months, so today we got around to marking out where we want to put a stream. We managed to plant three shrubs along the margns of a stream that doesn't exist yet, so hope they will survive. I think when I close my eyes tonight I shall be seeing twisted clumps of bindweed root.

The stream is a compromise, we have enjoyed our pond over the years. Dad made it originally, and when we moved in we re-shaped it and used a liner instead of the concrete. A few years ago we had to replace the liner and took the opportunity of extending it and adding a bog-garden and stream. Over the years we have enjoyed the wildlife even more than the goldfish, so when it turned out that the annexe foundations would sit in the pond we re-homed the fish and mourned the newts and frogs. However, the anxiety of keeping two small grandchildren out of the water convinced us that this is not a good time to be making a new pond, hence the plan for a stream. Charlie Dimmock has achieved some attractive ones, so we'll see. Watch this space.

7 comments:

  1. Well I think its a lovely idea - as I said when we came in February, we feel very far away sometimes and this is such a lovely way to keep up to date!! I love your photo by the way. We are really excited that you and Dave are coming to stay, that night Nan told me she cried herself to sleep with happiness - sweet xxxxx

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  2. How exciting to get up this morning and find a comment already. Thanks Rachel.This is going to relegate the gardeining to short bursts as I keep popping in to see is anyone else is talking to me!

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  3. Mum, what's happened to you??? Up at 2 minutes past midnight checking your blog?????

    Seriously though, well done! X

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  4. I think her clock must be wrong - there is no way she was up at that time! Well done mum though lovely idea.

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  5. Hope we get to see pics of the developing stream! Just mowed my lawn - well grass patch, can't really call it a lawn! So Spring must have sprung!! Might even peg some washing out - now there's a scary thought!!

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  6. Hello Anne,

    Came here by Mary-Ann`s blog.I hope you`ll post photo`s of your garden because I always loved it.

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  7. Hi Anne, lovely to see your garden even though it looks very different to how I last saw it. really miss Norfolk, far too long since we last saw you. This is a great idea, much more peraonal than the phone, brings staying in touch into life!!

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